{"id":115635,"date":"2024-09-09T16:19:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-09T20:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/discovergrace.com\/?p=115635"},"modified":"2024-09-09T16:19:19","modified_gmt":"2024-09-09T20:19:19","slug":"build-better-relationships-from-better-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/discovergrace.com\/build-better-relationships-from-better-boundaries\/","title":{"rendered":"Build Better Relationships from Better Boundaries"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=&#8221;in_container&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; column_margin=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_tablet=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_phone=&#8221;default&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; row_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; row_border_radius_applies=&#8221;bg&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; column_element_direction_desktop=&#8221;default&#8221; column_element_spacing=&#8221;default&#8221; desktop_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_backdrop_filter=&#8221;none&#8221; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; column_link_target=&#8221;_self&#8221; column_position=&#8221;default&#8221; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/1&#8243; tablet_width_inherit=&#8221;default&#8221; animation_type=&#8221;default&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; border_type=&#8221;simple&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;][divider line_type=&#8221;No Line&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row type=&#8221;in_container&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; column_margin=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_tablet=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_phone=&#8221;default&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; row_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; row_border_radius_applies=&#8221;bg&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; column_element_direction_desktop=&#8221;default&#8221; column_element_spacing=&#8221;default&#8221; desktop_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_backdrop_filter=&#8221;none&#8221; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; column_link_target=&#8221;_self&#8221; column_position=&#8221;default&#8221; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/1&#8243; tablet_width_inherit=&#8221;default&#8221; animation_type=&#8221;default&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; border_type=&#8221;simple&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;][vc_column_text]<i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sermon highlights from <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/ns3X6v0iqnY?si=cv3yA3zsKKoorrag\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Boundaries Week 4<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Sermon by Dr. Collin Outerbridge; notes compiled by Dan O\u2019Toole.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Big Idea:\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">\n<p class=\"p1\">When You Are Loved Well By God, It Becomes Easier To Love Other People Well.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 class=\"p1\">Week 4 Main Scripture:<\/h3>\n<p class=\"p2\">Colossians 3:12-17<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p3\">Sermon Highlights<\/h3>\n<p class=\"p4\"><strong>Three Things to Know Before You Can Love Others Well:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">Colossians 3:12<\/p>\n<ol class=\"ol1\">\n<li class=\"li5\">You Are Chosen.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li5\">You Are Holy.<\/li>\n<li class=\"li5\">You Are Dearly Loved.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p class=\"p5\">God chose you, even before the moment in which you became aware of God, even before the creation of the world (Ephesians 1:4). God initiates the relationship with you. He chose you because he wanted you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><b>Understanding that God wants you makes you less needy to be wanted by other humans<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">Holiness comes from God, not from you. At the cross, Christ took on all your sinfulness and put all his righteousness on you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><b>Understanding that God accepts you because of Christ\u2019s holiness in you, you don\u2019t have to perform for the acceptance of other humans<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">You are not just loved by God, but you are dearly loved. Thoroughly loved. Completely loved. Your love for others comes and goes based on their behavior toward you. But God\u2019s love is perfect. He sees all things, even your sins, and still loves you.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p4\">How Do We Forgive?<\/h3>\n<p class=\"p5\">When you need to be forgiven, you need humility to ask the person you hurt or wronged for forgiveness. Their response to your humility is not your responsibility. Your humility and asking for forgiveness are your responsibility.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">A shortcut to eliminating the excess need to forgive others might mean that you need to seek to become less offendable, not being easily offended by everything.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><b>Forgive as God forgave you.<\/b> Forgiveness doesn\u2019t start with the other person. It\u2019s not contingent on them changing their behavior. Sometimes, the offender never changes their behavior. Forgiveness starts and ends with you. In many cases, forgiving someone will be a daily choice, just as God forgives you each and every time you sin.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p4\">Why Do We Struggle to Forgive?<\/h3>\n<p class=\"p5\"><b>We don\u2019t feel like we are dearly loved, and because of that, we don\u2019t feel forgiven<\/b>. We struggle to give forgiveness to others because we struggle to receive forgiveness from the Lord.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">If we live in the \u201corphan mindset,\u201d which says, \u201cBecause I don\u2019t feel loved or connected, I\u2019m on my own,\u201d We need to experience God as our Father, who chose to adopt us into his spiritual family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">Self-sufficiency \u2013\u00a0depending on you to meet all our needs \u2013 is contrary to the message of the Bible. Not only can it lead you to think we don\u2019t need God, but it will also cause you to treat other\u2019s needs with an attitude that says, \u201cIf I can do it for myself, why can\u2019t you?\u201d You need to learn to depend on God and walk in fellowship with the Holy Spirit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">By understanding that you are chosen, holy, and dearly loved by God, you can clothe yourself with the compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience appropriate to love others well, according to their needs.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p4\">How To Experience the Peace of Christ<\/h3>\n<p class=\"p5\"><b>Develop the Spiritual Skill of Gratitude.<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">It takes discipline to move from Grievance to Gratitude. 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